Listening Is an Act of Love

Listening Is an Act of Love: A Celebration of American Life from the StoryCorps Project (2007), a contemporary memoir with national scope by David Avram Isay, is a collection of stories, told by ordinary Americans, that celebrate life and humanity. The largest oral history project in America’s history, it received overwhelmingly positive reviews following publication. Isay is an American radio producer who founded StoryCorps, an ongoing American oral history project, boasting thousands of completed interviews.

Listening Is an Act of Love celebrates the typically unsung heroes of America. Isay and StoryCorps believe that everyone has something incredible to share with the rest of the world and experiences worth celebrating. Isay wrote Listening Is an Act of Love to prove that, by sharing the stories of ordinary people who aren’t usually celebrated in books or media, we uncover our shared humanity.

Isay begins with a description of StoryCorps. Anyone is welcome to visit one of their booths to talk about their life experiences and how they hope to be remembered. These recordings are then preserved in the Library of Congress for future generations to enjoy. This way, future generations can see what life in twenty-first-century America is truly like.



As Isay notes, we live in an increasingly disposable and transient society. Nothing lasts and we don’t care about permanence. We have forgotten what is important in our quest to chase moments and small victories that only satisfy us for short periods. The project reminds us what matters in life, fostering connections and bonding. In an age of disconnects, forgotten friendships, and detachment, remembering what we have in common is more important than ever.

Listening Is an Act of Love includes forty-nine separate interviews conducted by friends and family members, and so the content is raw, informal, and authentic. The stories span the social spectrum, highlighting what we have in common irrespective of our different backgrounds. Remembering our shared identity is emphasized at numerous points throughout the book.

In the chapter titled “Home and Family,” the subjects talk about their upbringing, who matters to them, and what love means. One woman discusses how she felt when she met her son for the first time after she gave him up for adoption many years ago. Another woman gives her daughter a folded piece of paper to show her how much she loves her, and a husband talks at length about caring for his mentally ill wife.



Isay covers the variety of jobs Americans have, and what happens when they don’t want to follow in their mother or father’s footsteps. Some interviewees reflect on what their parents did and how they feel about the sacrifices their parents made for them. In “Work and Dedication,” we learn about the stoic single mother who worked laborious, low-paying jobs during World War II so she could support her children. We also learn how proud a bus driver is of his work and the service he offers his passengers.

Listening Is an Act of Love covers struggles and overcoming adversity because we all have this ability in common. In “Journeys,” we discover the tortured man who defeated alcoholism, only to find himself homeless, and the plane crash survivor who doesn’t know why he made it out alive when so many others didn’t.

One man struggles with the death of his young son until he eventually finds peace; another loses both his wife and son to cancer after they are diagnosed within a month of each other. Isay reminds us that everyone is fighting a battle we don’t understand or know anything about, and we should treat everyone with respect and love.



“History and Struggle,” provides personal stories from individuals who lived through tumultuous times. For example, there is the daughter of an Auschwitz survivor who is haunted by what happened to her parent. We learn what it is like to celebrate Christmas during a conflict, and how it felt to be part of the cause that cost Martin Luther King his life. These stories remind readers how far society has moved forward, but what’s left for us to do.

The final section, “Fire and Water,” includes interviews related to Hurricane Katrina and September 11, 2001. The interviews reveal how survivors feel about watching others die, and how relatives felt as they waited for news about their loved ones. One man discusses how he felt as he waited to speak with his fiancée who worked in the first World Trade Center tower, and another man talks about escaping the second tower and praying for his life.

In the final story, a nurse talks about boosting morale in a hospital after Hurricane Katrina. Although she was not personally affected by loss through the storm, she recalls what it felt like watching families break apart and reunite. She describes how important it was to be a calm presence amid the chaos, and how she will never forget how difficult it was to stay objective.